Preparing kids

It's school time and children are getting ready to return to school or start for the first time. For many children though, anxiety over new teachers, bullies and the like makes school a not-so-good experience. Some tips to get you and your little one ready for the first day.

Name Game

Teaching your child to write their name makes excellent kindergarten preparation.

Encourage Independence

Before going into kindergarten, most school boards suggest that children be able to get dressed and undressed and use the toilet independently. They should know how to put on their own shoes.

Teach Basics

Take your child on errands and explain how things work as you go.

Make Getting Ready Fun

With younger kids a new backpack and a few new items of clothing and other kits tend to gear them up.

Communicate

Talk to your child about how he feels about school without judgment. Listen without jumping in to fix things.

Breathe

No matter what your child says, remain calm.

Understand

Don’t downplay your child’s fears

Problem Solve

Work as a team with your child--he is not alone in this.

Guide

Encourage your child to become independent and also by letting her work out problems she can manage on her own without you stepping in. Independence cuts the risk of separation anxiety.

Build Confidence

Build your child’s self-worth by celebrating his unique qualities and talents.

Prepare

Explain child what the school morning routine will be like.
Pack book bags and lunches, and lay out clothes the night before.
Have your child go to bed early enough and wake him in time to eat breakfast

Believe

Believe in your child’s capacity to work through problems and overcome adversity--your belief in him will help him succeed.